Any man can be a Father, but takes someone special to be a Dad!
I’m starting this blog on 12th May 2017. The date was a lot special for me. But now it’s more important than special one.
It’s my dad’s birthday today. A glimpse from his 2016’s birthday!
My Dad- Madan Panat. The only lively man in the family who takes care of every one’s sorrows and celebrated everyone’s joy under one roof. Man who always believes in hard work and being passionate of whatever he does.
Profession: A blend of Hard and Smart Work
This guy started working as a labor in a construction company during earlier 1980’s. Made his way through the life by learning new things and gaining knowledge of Civil Engineering. From Labor to Site Engineer – Supervisor – Site In charge – Project Manager. He always climbed up his life with the tools of hard work and perseverance. Step by step. In 2005, he left his job due to the desire of doing something big.
Started a Dairy Project in his fields with more than 100 cows. Started making good cash. Since this industry was completely dependent on natures mercy. It failed in 2009 badly due to back to back draught hits from 2007 to 2008 and 2009.
Madan Panat, as usual persistent and optimistic, returned to the field that awaited him for years. The construction line. He started from literally zero. To one of the best realtors in the city Chandrapur. Awarded by banks, HDFC and SBI.
Well that’s on Profession!
Personal Life: The social saviour and a supportive personality
Madan Panat, the second brother among three brothers and four sisters. Out from home at a young age. Due to responsibilities. Had a great to desire to pursue higher education but wasn’t able due to fucking family problems.
At the age of 21, he took the burden of the marriage of two sisters. He took the responsibility of education of younger brother. Successfully relieved them from his end.
It’s not easy to get deep into his personal life. There is a list of the things he did. This is not the right time to discuss those things.
In short, my father right from his young age became the elder brother of the family. The father who takes care of everyone’s needs and works hard for the betterment of each and every member of the family!
Why Am I Talking about my father so much?
My father has been a role model for me at every point of his life. He has helped me at every point of life. Right from making me mentally and physically strong to take risks and succeed like a boss through dicey situations.
One of his best sayings,”Never expect anything from life, Our duty is to work and live for our passion and nothing else!”
Apart from guiding me, my dad was the coolest guy on the earth. He had his mantras very firm. Until I stepped into my adulthood, he was strict and less friendly. The day i started growing mentally and consciously my dad became a closest and besets friend to me.
Not every Indian guy has this opportunity. Hence this makes me feel special.
BUT…
As i said earlier life shows you the worst situations from time to time. And the time for me came when I had to face the worst imaginable thing,
My dad passed away… on 19th January 2017.
It’s hard and heavy to write about my dad for me. He was the best. I loved him very much. I’m little less expressive on the matters of love and affection. I never told him that i loved him. I guess never felt the need. He knew it better than me. He believed in me.
There were lot of pacts and dreams for both of us. Like going on a hiking trip when he gets fit and healthy from his medication.
The other is drinking beer as a toast of success when I become a successful person in my life…
All these small things are just never achievable things. Few things are just impossible.
He left this world with his good deeds and principles.
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